Live Out Loud!

Cultivate Your Emotional Intelligence and Improve Your Life


Dear friends and global citizens of the world,                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        
As a person of color, many of you have asked me about my take on what is taking place -- not only in the USA but around the globe -- with respect to demonstrations/protests in response to police brutality and the unnecessary loss of [Black] lives. I realize this has become a highly emotionally-charged issue, and yet, we need to discuss these types of issues if we are to move the conversation forward, to further our understanding of systemic and institutionalized racism, and many other related topics. 

First, I condemn any act of police brutality. Black lives do matter. This is more than a sound byte. It is a larger issue of how certain segments of our population have been treated and marginalized for not only decades, but literally for centuries. When we seek first to understand, there is so much we can learn about topics related to race, prejudice, and biases (both conscious and unconscious). We ALL must engage in listening more and NOT shouting matches. I encourage you to join one of many groups that have formed designed to increase understanding, empathy, and compassion for the current state of affairs.

In closing, I thank you for intentionally exhibiting the highest degrees of emotional intelligence and emotional agility during these difficult days. In addition, thanks for also displaying cognitive, emotional, AND compassionate empathy in the days/weeks/months ahead! I believe in you.

In service,

Dr. Dalavai
Dr. Emmanuel Dalavai is a speaker, educator, writer, and global advocate for positivity, empathy, and optimism.
"If you ask me what I came into this life to do, I will tell you: I came to LIVE OUT LOUD."
emile zola
"Faith is taking the first step, even when you don't see the whole staircase.”
Martin Luther King, Jr.
"We must (continue to) cultivate our garden."
"So let us begin anew -- remembering on both sides that civility is not a sign of weakness, and sincerity is always subject to proof. Let us never negotiate out of fear, but let us never fear to negotiate. Let both sides explore what problems unite us instead of belaboring those problems which divide us."
John F. Kennedy, Jr.
“Travel is fatal to prejudice, bigotry, and narrow-mindedness, and many of our people need it sorely on these accounts. Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one's lifetime.”
Mark Twain
"Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble."
"If it's the right thing to do, then don't think twice about it; you just need to DO IT!"
(the late) jaya j. dalavai